工作没了,我该如何赚钱养家
事情已经过去一段时间了,但现在想起来还心有余悸。
原本我是在一个一个国有单位建筑公司上班,虽然一年只能在家几次,但养活一家老小不是问题,一个月有7000多快钱公资,养活家里的父母、老婆、女儿不是问题。老婆在家里持家,不上班的。我虽然幸苦一点,但看到家里人生活的热热闹闹的。心里还是心甘情愿的。
可是虽然中国经济的改变、建筑领域及建材市场的不景气。我这个基层技术性员工,被迫下岗了,离开了我虽然不是很热爱,但可以养活家人的岗位。当时虽没有天踏的感觉,但内心很空,坐在回家的动车上,一脸无助和迷茫,我当然可以养活自己,但我的家人怎么办。我是一个男人,下面的路该如何走,我不知道。由于长期在人烟稀少且偏远的工地上做事。我除了会工地上的那些事情之外。其它的真的不太懂,并且我还不喜欢交流,也不知道这个社会现在流行什么。喜欢什么,自己不知道。自己三十多岁了,虽然还可以称为年轻,但现在的社会节奏这么快。我如何在社会上找到一份7000多快钱的工作。并且到任何单位刚起步,人家最多给你二千多快钱公资就不错了。毕竟我的家是一个三线城市。
回到家里之后,由于事前电话和老婆聊过,所以他也没什么太惊讶。只是父母愁眉苦脸。想说我,但又不知道该说些什么。只是不停叹气。埋怨这个破单位,埋怨如今的这个社会。
老婆的意思是她让父母带孩子,他出去找份工作。虽然是中专学历,估计找个商场卖衣服之类的,也能挣个一千多快钱,我呢也出去找份工作,二千多,一个月省点,应该可以生活整个家庭,但想余钱那是不可能呢。万一有个大病小灾的,也是抗不住的。
但父母身体一直不好。我们两都出去工作了,家里谁来照顾呢,小孩六七岁了,上学放学。教育怎么办。并且我是一个男人,这个家我必须养活起来。
回家呆了几天后,终于坚定决心,老婆还是在家里照顾这个家,我决定出去创世界,虽然我已经三十多岁了,我相信我还年轻。于是我联系了一个在广州的朋友之后,决定去那里闯闯,寻找一份可以养家的活。到了那里之后,工作倒是好找,我的学历是大专。三千左右的工作还好找,但是去掉生活费,租房费之后,真的就余不了多少钱了。由于我朋友是做外贸的,就是接一些外贸定单、或者找一些厂里做一些高端仿品。他也好几次让我跟他混。但我还是想凭自己本事再试试,并且我骨子里看不上这些做尾货外贸的这些人,感觉这些人是捣江湖的。虽然他的人品真的不错。现在想想自己刚出来的心态真是装逼,或清高吧。虽然大家看到太多的文章最后都是清高者沾了上风,或坚持自己的原则人取得了最后的胜利,但那只是小说。或读者类的心灵鸡汤。因为现实就是现实,房价上涨了,你说不想投机,但还是一年比一年高。找政府办事情,不找找关系就是难办。家里孩子要上学,你不想想办法找找关系,就是上不了好的学校。。。。等等。这也许就是社会,说不上是好是坏。暂先不给定位。自己混了一段时间后,可能是自己性格原田,还是越来越不行了,因为家里确实越来越困难了。老婆打电话给我说,孩子学费要交了,家里没钱了,想到她妈那里拿点的时候,我感觉一个男人的自尊完全没有了,一个男人活在老婆心中的一切都轰然倒塌,然后老婆一直也没说我什么,但当里家混的需要借钱生活的时候,兄弟姐妹们,这事放谁身上都受不了。最近我打电话找了我那个朋友,晚上要请他到饭店吃饭,看我下一步怎么弄,估计他在电话里也听出了我的语气。晚上见面后,没有让我到饭店请他,而是一起到了烧烤摊边,叫了简单几个菜,一些烧烤一些啤酒就聊了起来。我也把这段时间工作情况也给也说了,他也很能理解我的处境,干了一大杯啤酒后,拍拍我后说:“跟着我一起做吧,我不能保证你挣多少钱,但一定可以养活家里。。。
于是第二天我来到了他租的办公楼,里面都是加工或半加物件材料。或一些宣传画册。有手表、包包、衣服、鞋子、反正大家能想到的,都会有。他说:一般接到公司原单后,或其它一些业务,都会找厂家加工制作,虽然是A货,或精货,甚至外贸原单。但一定要保证质量,及产品本身的价值。我问他这样事情政府不管吗?他说当然管,但那个城市有没有呢?北京中关村电子类产品、深圳华强、广州白马。合肥。。。。太多,很难从道德上去定义这些。为什么国际名牌一定要卖的很贵,明明实际价格只有几百或几千,只这些名牌给你讲历史,讲高端,给你讲企业文化,给你讲牌子起源等等,哗!几万快钱就这出来,你说这又是什么呢?难道这些企业说的一切都是真的?又或者说为什么一些国际品牌在国外跟地摊一样价格,到国内即就是高富帅,白富美了,因为中国人钱好骗?还是中国人就喜欢买大牌,再比如中国的车辆是仿的越来越像国际车了,不管你是路虎、还是大众还是奥迪,本来到中国后都是上百万的,在那高端着,中国人就是买不起,可是中国国产车模仿过之后,或中国的一些自主设计之后,有了国产车的竟争,发现这些高端车也走下了神圣坛,你说这是对还是借,还是模仿呢,我们是不是还要站在道德高度去骂这些国产车,说:哎,你们真不好意思,干嘛要模仿人家,自己搞不行嘛。是不。好吧,他的这些理由不管对错,我是不知道怎么接了。
跟着一起做了外贸单、精货之后,我也慢慢用微信销售这些了(有兴趣的朋友可以加我微信聊gaofangpin888)在上面可以看到各类精品A货,基本上手活用品都有。有的人看到这里又会站在某种角度说,哎,这又是一个软文,这又是一个广告。没意思。可是生活到底怎么样才有意思。世间又有多少真真假假,基本一切都在人心吧,看自己怎么认为了。
自己在广州打拼之后,一个月挣的钱也慢慢可以养活家里人了,老婆也不用工作,安心带孩子。所以当人遇到困难之后,其实可能不是坏事情,也许是好事情的开始。我此生不求大富大贵,家里人幸福安康就好了。好了,再做一次广告,微信gaofangpin888 有思想道德人不要骂我啊,不喜欢可以会心一笑,喜欢的可以联系。
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